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We asked a few of our HER Voices some queer questions, here’s what happened:

Name: Becky
City, Country: North West England
Age: 19
Sexual identity: Lesbian
Relationship Status: Single
Tumblr: l-e-s-b-o-t.tumblr.com
Why did you create your HER profile: I’m looking for a relationship
Favorite thing about females: They’re so beautiful!
Favorite OITNB character: Poussey
Dogs or Cats: Cats all the way
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Name: Berlyn
City, Country: Los Angeles, California
Age: 22
Sexual identity: Lesbian
Relationship Status: Very single
Tumblr: girlswholikegirls.tumblr.com
Why did you create your HER profile: I created my HER profile to find my L word gay grew and to meet new hot gay gals in my area LOL. I also really liked that it’s exclusively for women only.
Favorite thing about females: Oh, they’re super soft. haha. I like that.
Favorite OITNB character: ah! Red
Dogs or Cats: Definitely dogs allll the way!
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Name: Sofie
Tumblr: http://dykes-lesbians.tumblr.com
City, Country: Belgium
Age: 21
Sexual identity: Lesbian
Relationship Status: Single
Why did you create your HER profile: Because I wanted to have more lesbian friends
Favorite thing about females: Boobs, but to give a more sophisticated answer: eyes and lips
Favorite OITNB character: Poussey!
Dogs or Cats: Cats for sure
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Name: Karolina
City, Country: Oborniki, Poland
Age: 19
Sexual identity: Lesbian
Relationship status: Single
Tumblr: cantcontrolthegay.tumblr.com
Why did you create your HER profile: To meet more LGBT people
Favorite thing about females: Everything to be honest…ladies are heavenly creatures.
Favorite OITNB character: nicky :heart_eyes:
Dogs or Cats: Dogs
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Name: Amy
City, Country: Meath, Ireland
Age: 18
Sexual identity: Lesbian
Relationship Status: In a relationship
Tumblr: http://she-loved-her-endlessly.tumblr.com/
Why did you create your HER profile: For a long time I was one of the only openly gay girls in my school/ area and I had no idea how to tell if a girl was gay or who else in my town was gay or bisexual that I just didn’t know about so after hearing about the app I downloaded it straight away to see what it was like and suddenly all these familiar faces appeared on my screen and suddenly I felt happy knowing I wasn’t the only girl around who was openly gay and I made so many new friends because of it.
Favorite thing about females: They’re so soft and an hearing a girls laugh or moan can make you weak in seconds
Favorite OITNB character: Taystee
Dogs or Cats: Dogs
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Name: Vianca
City, Country: Caguas, Puerto Rico
Age: 24 years old
Sexual identity: Sapiosexual lesbian
Relationship status: taken
Tumblr: lesbians-in-heaven.tumblr.com
Why did you create your HER profile: I created a Her profile to find new friends, I don’t have many LGBT girl friends and I already made a friend.
Favorite thing about females: I love how soft and gentle woman are and feel <3.
Favorite OITNB character: Alex is my favorite OITNB character, she is very true to her feelings and she speaks her mind.
Dogs or Cats: I love cats and dogs! I can’t choose :grimacing:
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Name: Olivia (Olive)
City, Country: Peterborough Canada
Age: 20
Sexual identity: GAYYY
Relationship Status: Single
Tumblr: http://lookgayness.tumblr.com/
Why did you create your HER profile: I created my HER of course to meet new girls who also enjoy girls. HER allows for me to find out who is into gals so I can chat with them during class or out at the pub.
Favorite thing about females: There’s just something about girls that I’m wired to love.
Favorite OITNB character: Boo and Nicky have a friendship that warms my heart.
Dogs or Cats: Dogs
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Name: Tiffany
City, Country: Bay Area, California, USA
Age: 18
Sexual identity: Gay
Relationship status: Taken
Tumblr: i-do-it-for-the-lesbians.tumblr.com
Why did you create your Her profile: to meet more girls with similar interests in and around my community
Favorite thing about females: how can I pick just one
Favorite OITNB character: yoga jones
Dogs or cats: cats
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Name: Nicky
City: Miami, Florida
Age:19
Sexual identity: lesbian
Relationship status: single
Tumblr: blendedz0nes.tumblr.com
Why did you create your HER profile: To meet more girls in my area!
Favorite thing about females: Everything :heart_eyes:
Favorite OITNB character: Alex of course
Dogs or cats: Both but I prefer dogs
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Name: Jenni
City, Country: Washington, USA
Age: 21
Sexual identity: Lesbian
Relationship Status: Taken
Tumblr : Queering-out-loud.tumblr.com
Why did you create your HER profile: To meet rad lady friends. I don’t have many nearby. So, the app fills that void. :dancers:
Favorite thing about females: Their smell, smoothness, how pretty they are, pretty much EVERYTHING. :heart_eyes_cat:
Favorite OITNB character: low-key Nicki, high-key Poussey. WHAT ABOUT WENTWORTH THOUGH? :grin:
Dogs or Cats: Why not both?
Lesbian Movies/ Tv Shows
Movies and tv shows that either involve lesbian characters, revolve around a lesbian storyline, or involve lesbianism in some form or another.
Movies
- A Marine Story (2010)
- And Then Came Lola (2009)
- An Unexpected Love (2003)
- A Perfect Ending (2012)
- All Over Me (1997)
- Angels Crest (2011)
- Better Than Chocolate (1999)
- Black Swan (2010)
- Blood and Roses (1960)
- Bloomington (2010)
- Blue Gate Crossing (2002)
- Blue is the Warmest Colour (2013)
- Bound (1996)
- Breaking the Girls (2013)
- But I’m a Cheerleader (1999)
- Chloe (2009)
- Circumstance (2011)
- Cracks (2009)
- Chutney Popcorn (1999)
- D.E.B.S (2004)
- Daughters of Darkness (1971)
- Desert Hearts (1985)
- Elena Undone (2010)
- Eloïse (2009)
- Eternal (2004)
- Eulogy (2004)
- Finding Kate (2004)
- Fingersmith (2005)
- Four Faced Liar (2010)
- Foxfire (1996)
- Freeheld (2013)
- Fucking Åmǻl [Aka: Show Me Love] (1998)
- Gia (1998)
- Girls Play (2004)
- Go Fish (1994)
- Gray Matters (2006)
- Henry and June (1990)
- High Art (1998)
- I Can’t Think Straight (2008)
- If These Walls Could Talk 2 (2000)
- Imagine Me & You (2005)
- It’s in The Water (1997)
- Itty Bitty Titty Committee (2007)
- Jenny’s Wedding (2015)
- Kissing Jessica Stein (2001)
- Kyss Mig (2011) [Swedish/more realistic version of Imagine Me & You]
- La Répétition (2001)
- Late Bloomers (1996)
- Leading Ladies (2010)
- Life Partners (2014)
- Lost and Delirious (2001)
- Loving Annabelle (2006)
- Lust for a Vampire (1971)
- Madchen in Uniform (1931)
- Mosquita y Marie (2012)
- My Summer of Love (2004)
- Nina’s Heavenly Delights (2006)
- Pariah (2011)
- Puccini for Beginners (2006)
- Room in Rome (2010)
- Running on empty dreams (2009)
- Saving Face (2004)
- Show Me Love (1998)
- Sick Girl (2007)
- Sister My Sister (1994)
- The Adventures of Two Girls in Love (1996)
- The Gymnast (2006)
- The Hours (2002)
- The Hunger (1983)
- The Kids Are Alright (2010)
- The Runaways (2010)
- The Vampire Lovers (1970)
- The Velvet Vampire (1971)
- The World Unseen (2007)
- Tipping the Velvet (2002)
- Treading Water (2001)
- Vampyres (1975)
- Vampyros Lesbos (1971)
- Water Lilies (2007)
- When Night Is Falling (1995)
- Wild Things (1998)
- With Every Heatbeat (2011)
TV Shows
- Buffy The Vampire Slayer
- Chasing Life
- Faking It
- Feminin/Feminin (web series- femininfeminin.com)
- Girl/ Girl Scene
- Glee
- Greys Anatomy
- How To Get Away With Murder
- Lip Service
- Lost Girl
- Orange is the New Black
- Orphan Black
- Out With Dad (web series)
- Pretty Little Liars
- Rookie Blue (season 5&6)
- Sense8
- Skins (season 3&4)
- South of Nowhere
- Sugar Rush
- The 100
- The Fosters
- The L Word
- The Real L Word
- Wentworth
Feel free to add to the list if I’ve missed any :)
(via amour-fouu)
Lesbian Movies/ Tv Shows
Movies and tv shows that either involve lesbian characters, revolve around a lesbian storyline, or involve lesbianism in some form or another.
Movies
- A Marine Story (2010)
- And Then Came Lola (2009)
- An Unexpected Love (2003)
- A Perfect Ending (2012)
- All Over Me (1997)
- Angels Crest (2011)
- Better Than Chocolate (1999)
- Black Swan (2010)
- Blood and Roses (1960)
- Bloomington (2010)
- Blue Gate Crossing (2002)
- Blue is the Warmest Colour (2013)
- Bound (1996)
- Breaking the Girls (2013)
- But I’m a Cheerleader (1999)
- Chloe (2009)
- Circumstance (2011)
- Cracks (2009)
- Chutney Popcorn (1999)
- D.E.B.S (2004)
- Daughters of Darkness (1971)
- Desert Hearts (1985)
- Elena Undone (2010)
- Eloïse (2009)
- Eternal (2004)
- Eulogy (2004)
- Finding Kate (2004)
- Fingersmith (2005)
- Four Faced Liar (2010)
- Foxfire (1996)
- Freeheld (2013)
- Fucking Åmǻl [Aka: Show Me Love] (1998)
- Gia (1998)
- Girls Play (2004)
- Go Fish (1994)
- Gray Matters (2006)
- Henry and June (1990)
- High Art (1998)
- I Can’t Think Straight (2008)
- If These Walls Could Talk 2 (2000)
- Imagine Me & You (2005)
- It’s in The Water (1997)
- Itty Bitty Titty Committee (2007)
- Jenny’s Wedding (2015)
- Kissing Jessica Stein (2001)
- Kyss Mig (2011) [Swedish/more realistic version of Imagine Me & You]
- La Répétition (2001)
- Late Bloomers (1996)
- Leading Ladies (2010)
- Life Partners (2014)
- Lost and Delirious (2001)
- Loving Annabelle (2006)
- Lust for a Vampire (1971)
- Madchen in Uniform (1931)
- Mosquita y Marie (2012)
- My Summer of Love (2004)
- Nina’s Heavenly Delights (2006)
- Pariah (2011)
- Puccini for Beginners (2006)
- Room in Rome (2010)
- Running on empty dreams (2009)
- Saving Face (2004)
- Show Me Love (1998)
- Sick Girl (2007)
- Sister My Sister (1994)
- The Adventures of Two Girls in Love (1996)
- The Gymnast (2006)
- The Hours (2002)
- The Hunger (1983)
- The Kids Are Alright (2010)
- The Runaways (2010)
- The Vampire Lovers (1970)
- The Velvet Vampire (1971)
- The World Unseen (2007)
- Tipping the Velvet (2002)
- Treading Water (2001)
- Vampyres (1975)
- Vampyros Lesbos (1971)
- Water Lilies (2007)
- When Night Is Falling (1995)
- Wild Things (1998)
- With Every Heatbeat (2011)
TV Shows
- Buffy The Vampire Slayer
- Chasing Life
- Faking It
- Feminin/Feminin (web series- femininfeminin.com)
- Girl/ Girl Scene
- Glee
- Greys Anatomy
- How To Get Away With Murder
- Lip Service
- Lost Girl
- Orange is the New Black
- Orphan Black
- Out With Dad (web series)
- Pretty Little Liars
- Rookie Blue (season 5&6)
- Sense8
- Skins (season 3&4)
- South of Nowhere
- Sugar Rush
- The 100
- The Fosters
- The L Word
- The Real L Word
- Wentworth
Feel free to add to the list if I’ve missed any :)
(via amour-fouu)
Ashleigh Walker is in love. You know the feeling - that intense, heart-racing, all-consuming emotion that can only come with first love. It’s enough to stop her worrying about bad grades at college. Enough to distract her from her parents’ marriage troubles. There’s just one thing bothering her… Shouldn’t it be her boyfriend, Dylan, who makes her feel this way - not Miss Murray, her English teacher?
This Young Adult, LGBT coming-of-age story tackles a number of issues that modern youth have to deal with, namely parental divorce, relationships and, most poignantly, coming out. I wish that I could have read this book when I was younger, because Ash, the protagonist, reminded me so much of my younger self.
At first, I found the book to be slightly juvenile, possibly because I haven’t read any YA fiction for a while. Initially, its style reminded me a lot of Angus, Thongs and Full-Frontal Snogging, which I was obsessed with when I was younger, and this obviously did not appeal to me as much now, as it did then. However, after sticking with it, I really found myself becoming engrossed by the story. It is not only funny but it deals sensitively with adult themes, which I found refreshing.
I found myself laughing at the fact that I used to (and perhaps, to some degree, still do) think in exactly the same way as Ash, as the book vividly portrays young people today, and perhaps this is a part of the reason that I found most of the characters to be so relatable.
I particularly enjoyed the fact that this book exhibits a wide variety of responses to Ash’s coming out, as I am sure that anybody who has dealt with a similar situation will identify with at least one, if not all, of the reactions from her friends and family.
Naturally, I would recommend this book to anybody who loves YA fiction, but especially to those between the ages of 15 and 18. I am also sure that most LGBT people will be able to relate to Ash’s experience in one way or another, and I believe this book could serve as a useful introduction to the struggles – and triumphs – of LGBT youths, for both them and their family and friends!
HER Social App is hosting a live chat with @ingridnilsen on Tuesday July 12th! Join the event on the app and begin posting questions for Ingrid!
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@ingridnilsen will be having an Ask Me Anything event on HER social app!
Tuesday July 12 at 10 am PT/1 pm ET/ 6 pm BST/ 7 pm CET
Head over to the app now and ask questions in the event and Ingrid will respond!
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